Saving Memories
Soon after Murray the cat passed, I was texting his owner thanking her for the toys and scratching post they had given Abe. One of them was a little shrimp stuffed with catnip. She said she kept his ratty old one as well as other toys from many past pets. I told her I was embarrassed to say that I had a small jar with Nellie's fur in it. She laughed and said she kept one of Murray's whiskers. I think he was part Main Coon and had the most magnificent whiskers. When our other two cats died, well over 25 years ago, even saving ashes wasn't really a thing. You just dug a hole in the backyard and in they went. Our first cat that died went with the vet and he took her to the rendering plant. We were in the middle of buying our house and no place at the time to bury her. I would never think of doing that now!! Several of my clients have pictures, boxes of ashes, and toys to remember their pet. I think it's really sweet and I love hearing about them. Although we don't hav...